apple card doesn't show on wallet

What do you mean it doesn't show up? Did you have a link to order an an Apple Card? If so, did you succeed in applying? Did you get a confirmation email?

Have you met ALL of the listed requirements?

• You have iOS 12.4.1
• You are using 2 factor authentication.
• Your region is set correctly for your Apple ID (https://appleid.apple.com/) [Must be USA]
• Your region is set correctly on your phone [Settings>general>language & region - set to your region] (Must be set to USA).
• You are signed into your iCloud Apple ID Sign in with your Apple ID - Apple Support.
• You have a passcode on your phone.
• You are at least 18 years old.

Apple Card is currently only available in the USA. Is that where you are located?

Here are some details in this link-->Steps to take for applying to Apple Card - Apple Community

I have this issue and currently am very frustrated. What did you do to resolve this?

What happened when you followed the steps in the link in the post marked Solved?

Apple card still does not pop up after I have followed all the steps

Yes I meet all of the requirements. I want to apply for the apple card but I do not have that option in my wallet up to “add apple card”

Then you will have to use the link to contact Apple Support that is in the user tip.