You're not being a pain, but when you say "you broke" it leads one to think you believe you are writing Apple. Apple hosts this forum for users to help other users. I was (clearly not very well) adding some humor to my comment.
Airdrop is finicky even without an update. So we need to figure out why your devices don't see each other.
Instead of a restart do a reboot. They are different procedures.
On iPhone 8:
Press and quickly release volume up button
Then press and quickly release volume down button
Then press and keep holding power button (keep holding past swipe to power off) until the Apple Logo appears, then let go
If once the phone comes back and you sign in with your passcode, see if Airdrop works.
If that isn't it, see this link for additional thoughts: Use AirDrop on your iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch - Apple Support