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Turn off contacts in the iOS 13 Share Sheet

I need to be able to remove the list of suggested contacts on the top row of the "share sheet" in Safari and other iOS 13 applications. In just the past week since I switched to iOS 13, I've had a couple accidental shares; moreover, sometimes I present the contents of my screen to an audience, and I do not want them to see my frequent contacts. Finally, most of the suggested contacts are not contacts I would use anyways and are actually in frequent. This create some awkward circumstances an accidental sharing possibilities that can result from an accidental tap or brush with the screen. (Please see attached image from a similar request from another discussion group.) Thank you for your answers.




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Posted on Oct 2, 2019 5:01 PM

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Posted on Oct 17, 2019 6:38 AM

This feature is dangerous, unhelpful, and lacks privacy control. I also often share my screen (either on a large audience display or sometimes just on my device while sitting with a smaller group of people). It is not right that my suggested contacts are immediately visible to all. Furthermore it creates a big risk of sending the wrong picture to the wrong person. This is actually enough to force me off the apple ecosystem. Very sloppy and poorly designed feature.

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Jul 19, 2020 8:26 AM in response to Chatterer

Just adding my voice to the, ‘why can’t we turn this off?’, conversation. In my case it’s FB messenger which dominates that stream. Serously frustrating as I have difficulty with my hands and very concerned I might accidentally share something.

Apple will not answer such questions here.


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Dec 2, 2019 11:46 PM in response to IdrisSeabright

  1. Oh, sorry, I should have mentioned the whole world outside the US. The apps they primarily use do not include iMessage. Even if they did, the contacts they usually message aren’t the ones suggested by this change, that is just useless, no matter how you look at it. Sure, I can use a key to open a bottle, but WHY?
  2. It is for most country outside US. I’m not saying people use iMessage for EXCLUSIVELY messaging mothers and bosses with serious content, just that it is MORE LIKELY that they do.
  3. I did. Thank you for your thoughtful instructions.


As for responsibility, rest assured that I am careful what buttons I press, even more so after updating. Apple will NOT be sued because of me potentially sharing my cat’s poopy butthole with grandma. It’s just that I, together with the substantial number of people complaining about this issue, would like to enter the house through the door. It’s not that we will not use the window, or blame someone else that we broke our leg climbing through the window. We won’t judge people who want to use the window exclusively. Knock yourselves out. But I would rather have the option to use the old fashioned door.


TL;DR I don’t see why users should be extra careful for an option that is not useful.


Jan 8, 2020 12:34 PM in response to jjmck

For now the only workaround to turning off the contacts from appearing in the iOS 13 share sheet is to individually delete their Message threads from the Messages app.


It seems to work, look 👇



To remove the AirDrop contacts, you will need to go into your Control Center > AirDrop and change from Contacts Only or Everyone to Recieving Off.


Source: https://www.saintlad.com/remove-contacts-in-ios-13-share-sheet/

Feb 9, 2020 11:51 AM in response to lcascio

It's not an either/or to talk about the problem on this thread

Yeah it is. As per the community terms you all agreed to.


Note: submissions have been removed already in this discussion by the hosts for ignoring these terms. It is simple really.


There is nothing constructive about name calling.


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What I don't get is why folks who like this feature are on this thread trolling people for asking about workarounds and/or venting about this issue. It doesn't make any sense.

How is informing you of options trolling?


The workaround of paying attention was met with snorts of derision and anger. Other than using a 3rd party messaging app or switching to Android, it IS the ONLY known workaround.


Continuing the conversation is what doesn't make sense.


Efforts were made to help.

Feb 18, 2020 11:34 AM in response to Forgewire

me too, this thread is like rasputin and will never die ...


sidenote: admins, since there is nothing to be gained, no resolution and no answer to all of us who hate this feature why not close and lock the **** thread ?


in the meantime i have pressed the "following" button multiple times and it then turns to "follow" but i still get all the **** replies


should i press the "follow" button or what ? ... it is confusing


how about just a red button for stop and green button for continue to receive that would be nice


in the meantime, despite multiple attempts i keep receiving email updates which god knows i don't want


this what i have done multiple times ...left the page looking like this, shouldn't this stop updates ?

May 23, 2020 11:23 AM in response to jjmck

Not going to read through all the replies the fix for me was removing text messages from the favorites tab.

safari web page - share button- more-edit-under favorites- swipe left- remove messages

turned off phone. When share tab is available on safari, contacts will still be there but when you tap on them nothing happens. Nothing is sent/accidentally sent. Worked for me!!!

Oct 21, 2019 8:48 PM in response to jjmck

I also wish I could change which apps Show up first in the share sheet. The first few apps that show up and not apps I regularly use. For example, Facebook, I actually have to select the … (ie more) and then scroll down just to get to Facebook. I appreciate their trying to enhance the experience, but this simply is not up to Apple standards. It feels very half developed.

Oct 22, 2019 4:22 PM in response to jjmck

Someone else posted a screenshot of a convo with Apple, this is a new iOS 13 feature that cannot be turned off. I hope Apple engineers understand how annoying this feature is and either take it out or make it editable so we can get rid of the contacts we don’t want there. Meaning... most of the ones that end up showing.

Turn off contacts in the iOS 13 Share Sheet

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