Well... it's been awhile. I haven't had my 2018 Mini in my possession for the past 2 weeks.
I think the issue is now finally resolved.
They took my mini at the apple store after being sent there by "senior level support". The claimed it was a software issue because all the hardware checked out fine. They kept it for a week and then called saying it was fixed. I went to pick it up and was told it "was hung in the update cycle", they were able to "force the update and now everything is fine". Relieved, I told them they needed to start it for me. IT WOULD NOT DISPLAY... SAME ISSUE. They took it in the back, claimed to have fixed it again, but again when I instated the start it in front of me, IT WOULD NOT DISPLAY... SAME ISSUE. They took it back again, and it wouldn't even turn on. They decided it was a hardware issue and would order a new logic board.
A week later, I'm emailed that it's finished. Again I insisted the start it. It started as a new blank computer. They did not attempt to transfer my data as promised. No surprise based on the level of service I've received to date. Took it home, set it up and attempted to "migrate" from the last time machine back-up. Couldn't be found. WHAT??? I know it's there. So I decide to check the OS. It's Mojave, despite being assured this would have the latest board (flown from China, that's why it was going to take so long) with the latest OS... that was apparently more BS. I contacted "Senior level support", mostly a nightmare again for 2 hours. Finally I got someone who actually KNEW SOMETHING! We upgraded to Catalina. I restored from my back-up and so far all is well.
Apparently NOT ALL upgrades to 10.15.1 are created equally. For those running 10.15.1 and still having issues, but you have a functioning display (however you may have accomplished that)... go to the "apple menu" and select "about this MAC". Select "system report". In the listing tat comes up under "hardware" go do to "Graphics/Displays", select that. The last item in the listing that comes up under "Displays" (which should be your connected display) you will see "Adapter Firmware Version:" it SHOULD BE "2.15"
Apparently some 10.15.1 installs were NOT installing this for whatever reason. If it is anything other than 2.15, that is BELIEVED to be the issue... (or at least one of the issues). Hope this helps someone go in the right direction. MOST of the Apple people I dealt with were not at all helpful. Thank goodness for the guy I got last night. I hope my 2 MONTH Nightmare is finally over.