So you are using a VPN to VPN what is already a VPN, and the VPN is not working?
At the risk of an obvious suggestion, get rid of the outermost VPN?
Among the possibilities are that your ISP is incompetent, that your ISP wants rid of mail support, or—most commonly—your mail client is misconfigured. Usual remote authenticated SSL’d submission to TCP port 587 is typical, maybe TCP port 465, and not TCP port 25. Some ISPs still allow TCP port 25 from within their networks, or unencrypted connections from within, but block external. Switching the SMTP/ESMTP to the proper ports and to SSL means no second, outer VPN is needed.
But if you really need a VPN to connect into your ISP network, and from there access your mail, maybe find a different email provider? Or have your own domain hosted. Because working (routing) around your ISP for ISP email is only going to get more difficult.
pedant notice: Yes, I know, SSL is the old name, and TLS the new.