After it has been enabled for 2 weeks, you can not disable it. If it has not been two weeks since you set it up, as already mentioned, locate the email you received when enabling it, and use the link there to disable it.
You do indeed have a choice to simply not use Apple services that require 2FA (Apple pay, messages in iCloud, iCloud Keychain). But if you do use those, Apple has the right to enforce their rules for securing access to your data you’ve chosen to place in their systems. Since the are the stewards of that information, and can be held legally accountable if that data is breached, they have the right (as does any online service provider) to enforce security measures they feel minimally necessary to secure your data in their systems.
If that is unacceptable, then you always have the choice to not use your AppleID with Apple services that require 2FA, or don’t use Apple online services at all.