Iphone X wireless Charging issues

Hello,

I have an i phone X and having issues with the wireless charger. I feel like this issues started the end of the year after I updated to ios 13, but am not 100% sure about that. My phone will not wireless charge unless i turn the phone off and then place it on the wireless charger. when i place it on the charger it automatically comes back on and is charging. but if i take it off and put it back on it will not charge, the wireless charger indicates that it detects it and try but the charging symbol does not come on. I have tried different wireless chargers and another iPhone x and it charges just fine. I have reset the phone 3 times and have done a DFU restore. Does anyone else have any suggestions I could try. I have also turned off the battery optimization in settings. The phone has never been dropped and has been kept in a case. I have tried also to remove the case and still nothing. Another thing one day i left it on there for like 5 minutes and it started charging, this has only happend once.

Thanks