Hi. I certainly appreciate the frustration that you have experienced - I’ve been there - hence my efforts to try to document the known common causes and remedies for many of these situations. In writing the guide, I hope to have documented both “features” and pitfalls of iPadOS Safari that I and others have encountered - sometimes more than once!
The real problem, for many (if we are honest about this) is that iOS used to be a rather simple affair - without the more complex features of other platforms. Safari, Mail and other native Apps were really simple - with a very simple and intuitive UI. However, with the increasing power and shear untapped capabilities of iPad, with iPadOS, Apple have finally given us something significantly more complex. Attempting this within a “touch” UI is a challenge - and some of the necessary changes can catch us out. We, the end-user, can and do make errors; if there’s a tripwire, we’ll find it sooner or later!
Having spent considerable time with iPadOS, I now believe it to be a long-awaited improvement that genuinely makes the environment so much more useful - with great flexibility. It takes a little more time to learn (and reading the User Guide is, I suggest, absolutely essential) - and sharing the known pitfalls and knowledge amongst the community can only help to make it even better.
Anyhow, I hope the linked guide proves to be useful. If you have the time, any feedback would be appreciated.
-LP