Thank you again for giving me hope,
Since in the near future I don't intend on using iCloud for backup, I disconnected my iPhone
I restarted both iPhone and PC computer.
I then connected the iPhone using an Apple high speed cable to the PC directly into the motherboard USB.
I allowed my iPhone to Trust my PC.
I allowed the PC to make changes to the iPhone with my passcode number.
Then I waited, iTunes did not show the iPhone.
Then I disconnected the wire to the iPhone and plugged it back in.
My iPhone finally appeared.
I went to the page where "Backups" were shown.
I selected "This Computer" (I noticed that the box was checked for "Encrypt local backup"
and I didn't know how to uncheck that box. )
Once there all of the available "buttons" were de-highlighted and I was unable to
activate any of them, especially the "Back Up Now" button.
In the bottom right corner, there was a "DONE" button which was blue and
next to it was a "Sync" button that was de-highlighted and was unusable.
What I did notice was that the "waiting" circle would occasionally come on for a
second and then disappear.
At the bottom of this page was "Options" and the only one selected was "Automatically
sync when this iPhone is connected"
In the past, I have done all of this many times with this and different iPhones without
any problems. But since I installed Windows 10 and updated iTunes to the latest version
all these problems have started. I mentioned before that when searching in the Apple
Store online for the correct version of iTunes it shows a different version than the latest
version that I have installed.
Since the "Back Up Now" button doesn't highlight it can't even try to backup like it did
before.
I do appreciate your attempts at helping. Don't give up on me yet.
Frustrated Charlie