Hey there thang318,
Thanks for reaching out to Apple Support Communities. I understand you’re having issues adding music from iTunes to your Photos slideshow. I’ll be happy to help with this.
To verify, are you an Apple Music member? If you double-click one of the greyed out songs, do you get an alert that the audio track is not supported? If so, it’s possible the song is DRM-protected and will not work with your slideshow. If this is an iTunes Store purchased song, make sure it’s downloaded to your device and that you’re not streaming it. This link can help:
Redownload apps, music, movies, TV shows, and books
If it’s already downloaded, it may be an older version of the song and deleting it and downloading again should help.
If the songs are from another source, it may be a Protected AAC Audio File. In this case, you will not be able to use these songs for your slideshow. These articles have more info:
Create slideshows in Photos on Mac
Usage rights for iTunes Store purchases on Mac
Regards.