i am permanently locked out of my ipad help

If your iPad is disabled, or you have forgotten your iPad passcode, as indicated by lobsterghost1, you’ll have to follow this procedure:

https://support.apple.com/en-gb/HT211078

You’ll need access to either a PC (with iTunes installed) or a Mac (with iTunes or Finder - as appropriate for the installed version of MacOS).

Otherwise, if your iPad is Activation Locked, you’ll need your AppleID and associated password to remove the lock.

If you have forgotten your AppleID or associated password, these can be recovered here:

https://iforgot.apple.com

To recover your credentials, you’ll need access to one of the following:

• Your primary email address mailbox that corresponds with your AppleID
• Any of the secondary/recovery email addresses that should be configured for your AppleID account
• Any of the trusted telephone numbers (fixed line or Cellular/Mobile) that are associated with your AppleID

Unless you AppleID account has not been fully/correctly configured, or has been seriously neglected, recovery of the AppleID and password should not be difficult.

More information about recovery of your AppleID:

https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT201354

More information about recovery of your AppleID password:

https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT201487

When you recover access to your credentials, you would be well advised to log-in to your AppleID account from a web browser - and verify/update any email addresses and trusted telephone numbers:

https://appleid.apple.com

How are you locked out? If you forgot your iPad passcode or you see the message your iPad is disabled, see the directions in this link --> If you forgot the passcode on your iPhone, or your iPhone is disabled - Apple Support