my iphone 11 pro max has been hacked. what do i do
My iPhone 11 pro max has been hacked! My almost ex-husband bought me a HP laptop with Windows 10 in March which I scarcely know how to use yet; in May, I purchased the 11 pro max at Cellular Sales, stayed with Verizon service, it was activated. My very old iPhone 6 plus was not deactivated at that time. I had 11,000 photos, separation documents, family videos on the 6 plus - salesperson suggested I keep the 6 Plus until I'd had a chance to check my new phone to make sure I was satisfied that iCloud hadn't failed me and all my stuff got transferred over. BUT, I've been so overwhelmed, I didn't activate the old phone until today when I realized that might be why I got hacked. I'm not sure my laptop is properly synced with 11 pro max. I've been on tons of sites trying to get assets, debts, bank accounts, loans, etc split between husband and I. Lots of research related to getting divorced. I'm confused about security on my devices - if they are working together or against each other?? Where do I start?? Anybody out there have the patience to help me??
iPhone 11 Pro Max, iOS 13