I think I understand why I was confused. When I enter the email on my laptop and click on "forgot your password" it asks me to enter my phone number and sends directions to my phone. The thing is that because i'm signed in with another account, no more instructions pop up, at least that's why I think they don't. This is where I got stuck and got frustrated.
Once I was on the "passwords and accounts" page in settings, I went under "accounts" and pressed "add account." I pressed "icloud" and tried signing in with the email that i'm trying to get the password for. I wasn't able to, but there's another "forgot Apple ID" button so I pressed that. I was able to change it there because I confirmed my phone number and my iphone passcode. After that I was able to change my password.
I'm guessing that this might be different for others depending on how many accounts they're signed into but i'm not sure.
I'm sorry for my rude replies. I felt that trying to reset my password with the normal method was a dead end. It sort of was but I should have been more patient, so my apologies. I tried to make this as detailed as I could.