Apple ID was AUTOMATICALLY changed on my phone; no sync between devices
Ever since I updated to 13.5.1 I have had issue after issue, after issue:
1) my Apple ID has ALWAYS been my gmail account, all of a sudden, on my phone, my @me account is now set up as my Apple ID
2) when I log into appleid on my MAC, it still shows my @gmail account as my id
3) there is no option to revert back to my @gmail on my phone as the Apple ID (which is what I want)
4) my photos are not syncing between my phone and MAC -- perhaps because of this Apple ID issue (it's only while I was trying to figure out why they weren't syncing that I came to discover the ID had been changed on my phone since this last update)
5) I purchased more iCloud space, which is showing up on my phone, but not via appleid on my MAC (again--no sync between the devices?)
6) my phone is now telling me my storage is full; I'd like to delete the photos from my phone once I can see them on my iCloud account on my MAC
7) my images, links, etc disappeared in my iMessages (I figured that out from other forums--as there was no straightforward answer on this platform)
No one has hours in their day trying to figure out all these technical issues that are created by subpar coding. Every update creates 10 other issues. It's like taking ONE medication for ONE ailment, but that medication causes 10 other side effects, 10 other medications. Get it right the first time. If I functioned like this at work, I'd be fired.
Google Photos never gives me these issues. What am I paying for here?
iPhone XR, 13