2 iPhones same Apple ID

One of you can create a new Apple ID. Still there will be some data loss.

See How to create a new Apple ID https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT204316  and

See the data implications below.

Some of these things may apply even though not changing an Apple ID: What to do after you change your Apple ID or password https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT204071

 Keep in mind that some things available under a first Apple ID will not be available under a new Apple ID. For example, you won’t be able to transfer anything purchased from the App and iTunes Stores to the new ID. And, there are other issues to be addressed.

And see what Eric Root says on this matter here  https://discussions.apple.com/thread/251483565 and

what Winston Churchill says about it here: https://discussions.apple.com/thread/7452747

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But, despite any other data loss you can set up family sharing between the IDs to share purchases made with them. See:

Family Sharing  https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT201060

Set up Family Sharing https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT201088

Can I get help with this *** well

See my post above.

The fix I gave is as good as it gets with starting from scratch on one iPhone and, of course, that would mean even losing the family sharing "trick."