find my does not show up in t settings menu after I tap my nome
Find my does not show up after I tap my name in the settings menu
iPhone 6, iOS 12
"Find My" is iOS 13 or later. The iPhone 6 shown in your post will not run iOS 13.
For iOS 12, "Find My iPhone" is at Settings > [username] > iCloud. See the following for more information: Set up Find My iPhone - Apple Support
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