My iPhone not software Update

See if anything here helps.

Update your iOS device.        

Get help with over-the-air iOS updates          

Update – Can’t or can’t restore 

Have you tried using iTunes on a computer or Finder if running Catalina to do the update?

 Update software on iOS devices in iTunes on Mac

If you see an error when you update or restore your iPhone, iPad, or iPod      

Please make sure that you iPhone is connected with WiFi. If the problem persists, try restarting your iPhone. May be it will help.