My Late 2013 21.5inch Mac had been running slow over the last 6 months (frequent beach ball). I don't have automatic updates switched on, but overnight on Sep 25th, my Mac updated to Safari 14 and then everything went super slow and got even slower with Apps not loading and system monitor showing incredibly heavy disk usage.
Rebooted several times, but got even slower and finally (after 5 hours of trying different solutions) my Mac completely bricked and wouldn't get past the apple logo.
So, did a full recovery from my time Machine (shift R during boot and selected a backup prior to the update), with fingers crossed as I hadn't done this before.
Thirteen hours later ...... and my Mac is super fast and fully functioning.
First thing I did, was turned off automatic updates, as I don't want to be stressed out again.
Some oddities during the recovery ...
- my Photos library had to be repaired, which was done automatically
- my emails had to be converted to the 'New' Mail software (according to Apple) !! - they are all there.
- some old recurring events ended up in my Calendar, but these have since removed themselves automatically !!
Conclusion - Apple don't test their MacOS updates on old machines.