When I make a call no one can hear me and I can’t hear anyone. My speaker phone option is dimmed and I can’t click it. I also can’t make a FaceTime call,

If you have distorted Sound issue on your iPhone --> If you hear no sound or distorted sound from your iPhone, iPad

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