Sharing My Apple ID vs. Family Sharing
I currently share my Apple ID with my wife and daughter. We usually have the issue of each other's #'s occasionally showing up in the iMessage settings, having us to uncheck the #'s that aren't ours. Also mine and my wife's call history is merged on each of our phones. Lastly - and more annoying - my Airpods Pro and my daughter's Airpods sometime get connected to the wrong device. For example, I was watching a YouTube video today (just using the phone's speakers) on my iPhone and suddenly the sound cut off, and I knew the sound was routed to my daughter's Airpods. Happens the other way, too.
iPhone 11, iOS 14