iPhone 11 vibration too weak, missed so many calls already

I have switched a few months from iPhone SE (loved it) to iPhone 11. As much as I like it, there is one, but big problem - it's vibration. I have missed so many important calls already, because I cannot feel the vibration in the pocket or hear it at least a bit when it's lying on the table.

I guess there is nothing wrong with my phone, it's just how the vibration works in newer iPhones? I heard they changed the "vibration motor" from horizontal, to vertical, and that's why there is no any sound when it's vibrating and lying on the table.