You are being needlessly dense.
First, no one is saying that Apple *support advisors* monitor these forums. But If I were an Apple engineer, I certainly would. I'm sure Apple has some way of tracking support calls from users to look for trends, but how long does it take for a trend to get noticed? Probably more time than if the engineers just came here.
Second, while you're not wrong that each carrier might have a way of individually fixing a setting (e.g., integrative message on vzw) that doesn't mean your response is helpful. It should NOT take each individual user impacted to call their carrier to ask them to fix it. In fact, what about all the people that AREN'T savy enough to come here to complain in search of a solution?
Your recommendation is that we all individually call our carriers to fix the issue. That advice is woefully unhelpful to the normal users out there. This issue quite obviously transcends hardware, software, and carriers. The issue should be worked by the least common denominator: Apple.