You're welcome. I've been at this rodeo many many times. If you want the latest and greatest the moment they are released to the public, you have to bee at your computer, at the ready the moment they open pre-orders.
The good news is you got your order in and even though you may not have your phone this weekend, you will be getting your phone and Apple usually gets orders out within the delivery window, but often at the early part of the delivery window.
You'll see your order stay in the Processing stage for quite some time. You'll know it's status is changing when you are told it is "Preparing to Ship." At that point, you'll actually be charged for the phone. Then when it has shipped, you'll receive notification with tracking information so you can track it.
It's never fun to wait, but the wait will be worth it ultimately.