iPhone 11 Pro Dictation on Bluetooth

Is there anybody else out there in the Apple community that listens to music on a Bluetooth speaker and uses dictation to send all of their text messages?! because if you hook up your phone to a Bluetooth speaker your dictation is now ran through that Bluetooth speaker without any way to turn it off and the problem with that is there is a 10 second delay on every dictation request and once you’re done talking it comes back in a different language because it doesn’t understand you I am ready to drop Apple because of this I have already been on the phone with the customer support over three times and have wasted over 8 hours dealing with this problem... I suggest Apple start listening to their customers before they lose them all!! I’m slightly confused how android can make something so simple but all I have to do is go on my Bluetooth options and select a toggle to prevent this from happening but Apple is absolutely clueless about this aren’t you guys supposed to be the leader in music style phones you can’t even get your Bluetooth straight.