I am broadcasting the same name and detail from my TC, but still have to assign devices close to it to use that one vs my main bell!?
The idea with broadcasting the same name (SSID) is to fill your home with wifi but you do NOT need to assign devices.. indeed for the most part it is not possible. Your client devices will join the wireless with the best signal.
But this is NOT MESH.
This is a simple AP system. Mesh involves some serious effort at making handoff-roaming actually effective. This means wandering around your house with iphone or ipad it changes from one AP to another seamlessly. Rather like when you travel with your mobile phone will connect to cell tower that is best signal. Unfortunately older systems do not offer the required protocols for that to happen so your phone etc will tend to stick to whatever was closest when you woke it up.. and will not release without wifi being shut off and on again.
In the case where you would assign a device to a particular AP you will use a different SSID.. that is also a valid way to configure the network. I always see people bothered about having several wifi names available in the house.. but they are all one network and will still talk to all the clients and internet so it is not a major issue.
Mesh products now are relatively cheap for a medium quality system.. something like TP-Link M5 Deco. And it will work hugely better than TC as AP. It can use ethernet backhaul.
You could also use the wireless in Asus and add another Asus as it has built in mesh AiMesh.. not recommended for use over wifi backhaul but works fine over ethernet.
But then I could also just turn off the WIFI on it, use it as 2TB Hard drive and my TC back ups directly plug it into my Thunderbolt display Gigaport, which in essence would now give me an ethernet connect for my MacBook as it would connect via the T.bolt2 cable and then when in my office I am hardwired as needed and just use my Asus as the main Router for condo and disable bell, just using it for the fibre pull and my TV Top boxes which are hardwired to the bell modem.
Yes, you can turn off wifi in the TC and use it just for network backups. The TC can plug anywhere into the network you have suitable ethernet port. However if you plug into the thunderbolt monitor but use wireless on the computer this leads to a tricky setup. Because you now have two networks not one.
In this situation I would say a USB drive plugged into the monitor will work far better than a TC.. as local backups are much faster and more reliable.. and especially as we move to Big Sur which will use APFS formatted disk for backup.