While I personally can't imagine why anyone would want to default to the Column View, I suppose that there are a few million people out there in the world who would like to do so. However, the software feature allowing us to do it has not been written.
Thus there is no ability to set Column View as the default, to set the persistent grouping and sorting for any folder seen in a Column View other than the one you happen to be looking at, and you should forget about having settings affect child folders that you happen to pop into from aliases and such.
I guess some software really is too difficult to write, even for the crafty wizards of Cupertino! It's a shame though, because I get so tired of having to force my Mac to do what I want on a daily basis, just to make navigation easier for me. But perhaps I'm not as important a customer as those who want to default to Icon View. It's like we're the Hatfields and McCoys.