I have family sharing turned on and my wife listed as a parent/guardian. Her name does not appear in the Ask To Buy, yet she needs my permission before purchasing apps. I don’t see any way to force the settings to allow her to purchase at will. And yes, her Apple ID says she’s over 18.
MacBook Air
Sometimes signing out and signing back in again gets iCloud to reevaluate things.
Greetings My mind is going, Dave...,
We understand that you are having some difficulty with the Ask To Buy feature, and we'd like to help. Begin by reviewing the guidance found here:
Turn on Ask to Buy for Family Sharing purchases
If any issues remain, Contact Apple Support for further assistance.
Take care.
Why does my spouse need to ask to buy?
