AirPort Extreme router mode and iOS 14 private addresses
I have an AirPort Extreme (6th gen) I recently plugged back in after realizing the ethernet port in my apartment is live (suffering under MAC address filtered building wireless before that). My wireless network came up fine and I was able to connect on my Macbooks. However, my AirPort Extreme, despite the wireless network seeming to work fine, has been flashing yellow and showing a red update dot in AirPort Utility. Today, I discovered that its router mode was set to DHCP and NAT and it becomes happy again (i.e. AirPort shows green light, no red dot in AirPort utility) if I switch it to Bridge Mode. However, in Bridge Mode, I can no longer connect to my wireless network from my iOS devices, including my iPhone and iPad (Macbooks continue to connect fine). After some research, I discovered that I _can_ connect if I turn off private addresses for my wireless network when connecting from my iPhone or iPad.
Does anyone know why this is? What is the correct configuration in this case? Is it better to be in Bridge mode and turn off private addresses when connecting from each iOS 14 device? Or is it better to stay in DHCP and NAT mode and let the AirPort continue to be unhappy? Is there a way to make both ends of this happy?
Thanks.