wooo! 500bg out of 1tb now! thank you so much for helping.
here is the output from this session
Justins-Computer:~ Justin$ diskutil eraseVolume free free disk0s11
Started erase on disk0s11 (NO NAME)
Unmounting disk
Finished erase on disk0
Justins-Computer:~ Justin$
Justins-Computer:~ Justin$ diskutil eraseVolume free free disk0s10
Started erase on disk0s10 (NO NAME)
Unmounting disk
Finished erase on disk0
Justins-Computer:~ Justin$
Justins-Computer:~ Justin$ diskutil eraseVolume free free disk0s9
Started erase on disk0s9 (NO NAME)
Unmounting disk
Finished erase on disk0
Justins-Computer:~ Justin$
Justins-Computer:~ Justin$ diskutil eraseVolume free free disk0s8
Started erase on disk0s8 (NO NAME)
Unmounting disk
Finished erase on disk0
Justins-Computer:~ Justin$
Justins-Computer:~ Justin$ diskutil eraseVolume free free disk0s7
Started erase on disk0s7 (NO NAME)
Unmounting disk
Finished erase on disk0
Justins-Computer:~ Justin$
Justins-Computer:~ Justin$ diskutil eraseVolume free free disk0s6
Started erase on disk0s6 (NO NAME)
Unmounting disk
Finished erase on disk0
Justins-Computer:~ Justin$
Justins-Computer:~ Justin$ diskutil eraseVolume free free disk0s5
Started erase on disk0s5 (NO NAME)
Unmounting disk
Finished erase on disk0
Justins-Computer:~ Justin$
Justins-Computer:~ Justin$ diskutil eraseVolume free free disk0s4
Started erase on disk0s4 (NO NAME)
Unmounting disk
Finished erase on disk0
Justins-Computer:~ Justin$
Justins-Computer:~ Justin$ diskutil eraseVolume free free disk0s3
Started erase on disk0s3 (NO NAME)
Unmounting disk
Finished erase on disk0
Justins-Computer:~ Justin$
Justins-Computer:~ Justin$
Justins-Computer:~ Justin$
Justins-Computer:~ Justin$ diskutil apfs resizeContainer disk1 0g
Started APFS operation
Aligning grow delta to 485,995,778,048 bytes and targeting a new physical store size of 999,995,129,856 bytes
Determined the maximum size for the targeted physical store of this APFS Container to be 999,994,101,760 bytes
Resizing APFS Container designated by APFS Container Reference disk1
The specific APFS Physical Store being resized is disk0s2
Verifying storage system
Using live mode
Performing fsck_apfs -n -x -l /dev/disk0s2
Checking the container superblock
warning: container has been mounted by APFS version 1677.81.1, which is newer than 1677.60.23
warning: disabling overallocation repairs by default; use -o to override
Checking the EFI jumpstart record
Checking the space manager
Checking the space manager free queue trees
Checking the object map
Checking volume
Checking the APFS volume superblock
The volume Justin's Disk - Data was formatted by diskmanagementd (945.275.7) and last modified by apfs_kext (1677.81.1)
Checking the object map
Checking the snapshot metadata tree
Checking the snapshot metadata
Checking the extent ref tree
Checking the fsroot tree
Checking volume
Checking the APFS volume superblock
The volume Preboot was formatted by diskmanagementd (945.275.7) and last modified by apfs_kext (1677.81.1)
Checking the object map
Checking the snapshot metadata tree
Checking the snapshot metadata
Checking the extent ref tree
Checking the fsroot tree
Checking volume
Checking the APFS volume superblock
The volume Recovery was formatted by diskmanagementd (945.275.7) and last modified by apfs_kext (1677.60.23)
Checking the object map
Checking the snapshot metadata tree
Checking the snapshot metadata
Checking the extent ref tree
Checking the fsroot tree
Checking volume
Checking the APFS volume superblock
The volume VM was formatted by apfs.util (945.275.7) and last modified by apfs_kext (1677.60.23)
Checking the object map
Checking the snapshot metadata tree
Checking the snapshot metadata
Checking the extent ref tree
Checking the fsroot tree
Checking volume
Checking the APFS volume superblock
The volume Justin's Disk was formatted by storagekitd (1677.60.23) and last modified by apfs_kext (1677.60.23)
Checking the object map
Checking the snapshot metadata tree
Checking the snapshot metadata
Checking snapshot 1 of 1 (com.apple.os.update-5523D8E63431315F9F949CCDD0274BF797F5CEE4EAF616D4C66A01B8D6A83C7B)
Checking the extent ref tree
Checking the fsroot tree
Checking the file extent tree
Checking volume
Checking the APFS volume superblock
The volume Update was formatted by com.apple.Mobile (1677.60.23) and last modified by apfs_kext (1677.60.23)
Checking the object map
Checking the snapshot metadata tree
Checking the snapshot metadata
Checking the extent ref tree
Checking the fsroot tree
Verifying allocated space
The volume /dev/disk0s2 appears to be OK
Storage system check exit code is 0
Growing APFS Physical Store disk0s2 from 513,999,351,808 to 999,995,129,856 bytes
Modifying partition map
Growing APFS data structures
Finished APFS operation