Hi Tiredof12,
Thanks for participating in the Apple Support Community. It sounds like you aren't getting notifications on your iPhone.
You'll want to confirm that you're running the latest iOS version. If not, then Update your iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch. Updates resolve issues both big and small.
If you're up-to-date on your iOS version, next check that your apps are also up-to-date by using How to manually update apps on your Apple device. Oftentimes when the iOS version gets updates so app developers.
If both of those are updated, let's make sure Banners are enabled among other things. In the section 'If you don't see notifications for a specific app' in Use notifications on your iPhone, iPad, and iPod touch.
If the issue remains after those steps, let us know if you're signed in to your Apple ID, the exact names of the apps that this is happening with, what steps from above you had a chance to check.
We hope that helps with your question and take care!