do i have to have a mac book to restore my ipad?

Use of a PC (with iTunes installed) or a Mac (with iTunes or Finder - as appropriate for the installed version of macOS) to restore an iPad is unavoidable. 

If you don’t have a suitable computer of your own, that of a helpful friend or family member will suffice. Alternatively, the technicians at the Genius Bar of your local Apple Store or Apple Authorised Service Provider (AASP) will be able to assist.

No, but you do need to have access to a computer with iTunes installed, or a Mac running Catalina or newer.

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