IPhone to android text/call issues
I have a problem that I cannot find anything online on how to help. So here is my issue. My wife uses an iPhone XS. I use a Samsung galaxy Note 10+. Recently I started having an issue where her text messages were not coming to me. (Please read all the way through). She can call me but no texts. I thought it was an issue on my end and I started troubleshooting my phone. Also...a real estate agent friend of mine who also uses an iPhone could text me...but anytime they try to call it says in an automated message that I'm not accepting calls at this time. HOWEVER, after a LOT of trial and error and me looking everywhere online and calling my service provider...doing a factory reset...and even getting a new sim card...I couldn't solve the issue. My wife and I are on AT&T...but I'm on FirstNet (for emergency responders). I was about to buy a new phone until I noticed my daughter is also not getting my wife's text messages.
So I proceeded to follow guides online about changing settings on imessenger as it may be the culprit. I turned it off...nothing, I turned it on and made sure SMS was selected...nothing. I had her sign out of imessenger and facetime...nothing. signed back in...nothing. rebooted...nothing. I even had her remove my text history on her phone and contact...nothing.
The odd thing though is that I receive picture messages from her and if she is in a group chat I can see her texts then. But if she texts anyone that uses an android it will not go through (had her test a few others). My agent friend with the iPhone cannot call Android uses either.
What on earth is the deal? I'm stuck...
iPhone XS