How to change notifications to be haptic only (no sound)?

A couple of months later, after trying to leave as much settings "as intended" as possible, I have a couple of annoyances with the smartwatch. I've had smartwatch before and might have a perception from the start on how I want things, but I've tried hard to adapt to new routines.

How to make the notifications to be haptic only? I do want notification of the house alarm, Facebook, Slack, SMS, but haptic only. The sound is annoying and irritating.

Actually the same goes with just about every notification. But I do really want the alarm to sound as I rely on that and preferable the calls would be neat to have a ringtone for, even if sounds for calls are in my view optional. I just cant find the settings for that behaviour. I saw the setting "Deliver Quietly" and that is not what I want, I just don't want the annoying (and unnecessary) sound alert as I do feel the haptics very well.

I feel stupid to not even find such a simple setting of "vibration only (except alarms)" or individually toggle alarm/vibration for each notification/alert, so I would be happy if someone could enlighten me on the appropriate settings.