Thank you, yes, we've tried all those steps and meet all the qualifications, versions, US location, etc. The issue only affects my daughter after being removed and re-added. The problem was her original participant invite didn't have the SSN step, and did not enable participant credit reporting. We started our family group on the Apple Card early in May, apparently too early. When we realized she did not have credit reporting going, we followed this Apple Support Article HT212271 - https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT212271 - which states to either:
- opt-in to credit reporting when accepting invitation (which did not present itself), or
- Call Goldman Sachs: 877-255-5923
We called Goldman Sachs, over the past 4 weeks we've spent several hours on the phone with them and Apple Support. Eventually Goldman Sachs said Article HT212271 is wrong and they can't add a participant to credit reporting after they've accepted. And I'm like, "really? then what about all the kids who are added when they're 13-17, the moment they turn 18 they have to remove their current Apple Card, destroy the titanium card, and re-add themselves to the same family account just so they can enter their SSN and opt-in to credit reporting?" They said, "YES."
So we tried that, six times now, and every single attempt to re-add has failed. It shows successful on my phone, and if she tries to add another credit/debit card it immediately offers the Apple Card with my credit limit on it, but fails to complete.
I'm certain this is only a bug when trying to re-add someone to the same family after they've already been on that family Apple Card - the iOS software is leaving an artifact in the config, and causing the new Apple Card to think there's a conflict, that there's already an Apple Card in the Wallet, and it then fails to complete the add step.
The very last 45 minute phone call with Goldman Sachs ended up with them transferring me to an Apple Tech, who then spent another 15 minutes insisting that it is a Goldman Sachs problem with the card... But from my perspective, the card is getting issued correctly, heck, I can even accept the "Do you want to receive a physical titanium card in the mail?" option after it fails to add to the wallet - and it will send one!
At this point I'm hoping the next 14.6.1 or whatever iOS update fixes the bug and we can re-add her to the card cleanly.