The Settings > Phone > Calls on other devices (which only offers the option of "accept calls on other devices") is switched off on both phones. Both phones have the same phone settings. We can't understand why my partner's recent calls don't show on my phone (which is perfect), but my recent calls show on hers as well as her own calls. Surely if both phones are set the same, they should act the same?
All we want is for both our phones to act independently of each other with regard to showing recent phone calls. When my partner makes, receives or misses phone calls, those calls appear on her iPhone but not on mine.
Equally, if I make, receive or miss phone calls, those calls should appear only on my iPhone, and not on hers.
Family sharing isn't really for us, as we don't use Apple Music, Apple TV+, Apple Fitness+, Apple News+, Apple Arcade, iTunes, Apple Books; and all the App Store purchases are on one ID anyway. We don't have a whole family, just the two of us, and we DO both need access to the entire calendar (which has business and personal appointments for both of us), reminders, notes, emails, photos, documents, etc.