I cannot get my Apple Watch to pair on find my phone anyone help me

Yes here are the standard pairing instructions - hope that helps:

Set up and pair your Apple Watch with iPhone - Apple Support

In that situation, check out this earlier discussion, would that help?

https://discussions.apple.com/thread/250944930

hello, I have an old series 2. it does not pair. I have reset the watch due to a forgotten passcode. on the iPhone it sees the watch and identifies the apple watch number but then the 6 digit verification code does not show up.