Internet/wifi connection very slow and irregular after update to Big Sur 11.4
Big Sur 11.4 (Safari 14.1.1) running on a 2015 12" MacBook.
At home on my home network, with a fiber-optic modem and strong wifi signal.
Up to this morning, prior to upgrading to Big Sur 11.4 (previously running 11.2), the wifi signal was strong, the connection was good, and Internet speeds were fast.
After upgrading to 11.4, everything about the computer is the same -- all the same settings, network, signal, etc. -- but now the connection to the Internet is extremely slow and balky. I am successfully logged in to and connected to my home wifi network, but something is wrong with the Internet connection, and it seems to have to do with the upgrade to 11.4.
Specifically what happens is this: The first time I attempt to log in to any web site, there is an extremely long delay, while Safari "thinks" about it. Eventually, if I wait about 4 or 5 minutes, it will finally connect to the web site. Then it will load quickly, as normal. Subsequently, any attempt to go to that same URL will be improved -- the wait time for it to load will range from 0 seconds (like normal) up to maybe 45 seconds at most.
But this is very frustrating, needless to say, because I'm always going to new and different web sites, so each time I have to wait 5 minutes just for the page to load.
But the problem is much worse and more complicated with some web sites that require a password or log in to access my account -- because the internal login referral page also requires a 4 or 5-minute delay/wait -- so it's 5 minutes for the original front page to load, then type in the password, and 5 more minutes to send the password. Even worse (and this is the real problem), many websites have an automatic time-out or automatic logout feature, so that I'm unable to ever even log in, because the 5-minute delay is longer than the code's maximum wait time, so I get timed out before the password is even sent.
The even happened right here on the Apple Discussion forums web site -- took me multiple attempts, and over half an hour of waiting and retrying, for me to get the password sent before being timed-out by the system.
After similar frustrations trying to get the Ookla "Speedtest' site to load, I finally got it to work, and it says (now that I'm "in" to that site) that my Internet speeds are fast/normal: 30 Mbps download time, 50 Mbps upload time, which is basically the same as what it was before the OS upgrade. So the connection itself is fine.
As far as I can tell, however, some sort of system problem with "permissions" or something like that seems to be interfering with my internet connection.
And the real problem happens with programs that aren't Safari. for example, when I try to do "Software Update" in "System Preferences," it now thinks and thinks for 4 minutes and then gives me an error message saying "Unable to check for updates. Make sure you are connected to the Internet."
Similarly, I can't use the iMessages app, because it apparently doesn't have the "patience" to wait for a connection -- no text messages get through, sending or receiving.
Etc. etc., with any program that requires an Internet connection.
What is going on? And how can it be fixed?