All I have is an iPad so I can not restore using iTunes
iPhone is disabled & I don’t have a way to restore using itunes
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You will need a computer to reset the passcode to the iPhone which is disabled. You can use a Mac or a Windows based computer with iTunes. Your iPad will not be able to connect with your iPhone and reset it. Try and borrow a computer form a friend or a family member. If not then visit your nearest Apple Store and see whether they can help you out.
Axel F.