transferring iPhone XS to iPhone 12,transfer stopped and sais we need to update to iOS 14,it,s been doing it for 2 hours and still running this updates it normal

To update all of these requirements must be met:

• You must be connected to a Wi-Fi network (and not a personal hotspot) unless it is an iPhone 12 series with an active 5G network connection
• The phone must be charged to at least 50%, and preferably plugged in so it stays above 50% during the update
• The phone must not be in Low Power Mode
• The phone must not be connected through VPN
• The phone cannot be in Airplane mode