What does "notifications silenced" mean in Messages?

I’ve been texting with a good friend of mine and all of a sudden at the very bottom of our texting thread it says “🌙 Molly has notifications silenced “. What does this mean? Is she specifically silencing my specific text messages so she doesn’t receive them or the banner doesn’t pop up? She has an iPhone as well and I’ve never seen this message before. My feelings are a bit hurt but I’m not really sure what it means, if someone could explain this to me I would so appreciate it.



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iPhone 12 Pro Max, iOS 15

Posted on Oct 11, 2021 2:54 AM

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Posted on Oct 12, 2021 7:48 AM

Hi vinnetta208, 


Thank you for using the Apple Support Communities. 


We understand that you’re seeing a notifications silenced message when messaging a friend in Messages app and we’re happy to help. 


It looks like your friend uses Focus on their iPhone. When a person sets up Focus on their iPhone, then you might see a message displayed in the Messages app that says [contact name] has notifications silenced. This means that the person you’re messaging has their notifications silenced. Please note that you can still notify your friend if it’s urgent. Learn more about Focus here: Use Focus on your iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch


Best regards. 

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Jan 16, 2022 10:06 AM in response to vinnetta208

It’s back… this seemed to be fixed and now with Thur/ Friday’s update it’s back again. I’m in my sister’s favorites but it shows her “____ has notifications silenced”. This shows to all her contacts. All her settings are correct, she disabled her DND and sleep times across all devices and rebooted and still it shows silenced. Lastly she will still get the messages just shows silenced when it’s not.

Mar 12, 2022 5:13 PM in response to vinnetta208

recently had the same message pop up on my son’s phone, though no focus or DND was on it was still showing status message.

but easily turned off on his phone (see image).

under the DND setting (can dear for it in setting for quick access) just go in and turn off the option to share focus status. That way it won’t show up.

though when it is turned on, the recipient stills gets all messages, it just solves the actual notifications (like driving mode option.

anyways, hope this helps.

Mar 26, 2022 2:28 PM in response to OzziesMAC

The problem is an IOS bug. Apple has not admitted it being a bug. What worked for me is to DELETE the focus from the other user. Example: I get “notifications are silenced” from user A in Messages. User A did not have notifications silenced or a focus enabled. User A then deleted their personal focus and then re-added it. It removed the “notifications are silenced” in messages on my phone.

Sep 29, 2022 11:41 AM in response to vinnetta208

The message displayed says that the person you are messaging has notifications turned off for messages. This can happen if they are in Focus mode or if in Settings > Messages they have set messages to Focus On, meaning they do not want to be alerted when a message arrives. If this is on, then Focus affects only messages and not everything else.


Notification off for phone calls is a different situation. Those are turned off if the person has activated Focus, Is in Do Not Disturb mode or it the ringer has been turned off or if volume is set too low.

Oct 20, 2022 6:19 AM in response to Jleibowitz

Jlebowitz, your Mom either has the iPhone in Do Not Disturb (DND) mode on, or she is silencing messages from you specifically. Either way, the messages will go thru but there will be no notification “beep.” There is nothing you can do other than send the message. Don’t feel bad. It’s probably not a slight. I myself put the phone in DND mode at times during the day. Otherwise it seems my iPhone is constantly beeping. I answer messages on my timetable. It’s just something I need for me. Maybe your Mom needs that, too. Or check to see when you are sending messages. I have a certain friend silenced because she is a night owl. (I’m an early bird.) She frequently sends texts well after the time I go to sleep. It used to get me upset until I learned these tricks. Lol … I just give her the courtesy of not responding until the time she is normally up so as not to wake her.

Feb 16, 2022 11:59 AM in response to vinnetta208

Silenced notification solved. After contacting apple support techs, doing everything online, contacting carrier...no one had answer. Then i found issue myself. Go to text, hit on person it is happening to/with. Hit tiny arrow under name. If shared focus is on, turn it off. I have main focus off, so dont know why this was even on w/contact or the select few this was happening to, and i never set it this way. By turning off from contact, problem solved. Figured out myself, no help from any “support”. Hope this helps others.

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