First you say:
Well firstly yes the forum here is the wrong place to complain about this.
And then proceed to do what? Complain about it. This though is even more special:
I do not want anyone and everyone being able to access my phone and it is really easy top swipe left and have a list of all your apps exposed for the world to see
But, my friend, if they have access to your phone then they can already see all the apps on your phone, plus all your private data. In fact to get to the App Library they have to swipe through all the pages of your Home Screen - thereby seeing all the apps you have before the even get to the App Library. So, frankly, the argument that this represents a privacy issue is specious nonsense.
I don’t like the feature and should be able to delete it it if I want to
This is untrue too. You buy a product as it is offered. If you don't like the offering then get a different product. You install an upgrade as it is offered. You don't get to chop off bits you don't like for incoherent reasons. If you don't like the upgrade, don't install it. If you don't like the OS, don't buy an iPhone.