how do i unlock my phone without the password?

If you forgot your iPhone passcode - Apple Support

You will need to reset the passcode on the iPhone. You will need a computer to complete this task. You can reset your passcode by following the instructions in this article by Apple ➔ How to reset your passcode on a disabled iPhone. All your data on your iPhone will be wiped clean in the process.

Axel F.

maritude2232 Said:

"how do i unlock my phone without the password?"

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Do you Mean "Passcode"?

If Locked Out...

Have any Proof of Purchase?

Unless you have the original packaging and receipt, you may be out of luck. If you do have it, however, then take this to an Apple Store, or an AASP (Apple Authorized Service Provider)! and they may be able to restore it. The reason for this blockage is all about Security & Privacy.

Since they said "to unlock my iPhone" both Axel and I assumed they meant the passcode for the iPhone. Are you under the impression if they forgot their passcode that they have to go to Apple and prove their ownership of the phone? Have you read the link we provided?