Screen Time between child's phone and mom's phone is out of sync and no longer controllable

So that is not the issue from my side as the parent using the device that controls or applies the screen time to my daughter's device. The screen time password works perfectly fine on my device against her profile. On my device, I can see her screen time being turned on and off using my password that I set and gives me no error on my device. It is only her device that is not responding. So that sounds more like the passwords aren't in sync somehow? It was all working perfectly fine through last Friday and somehow over the weekend her device is no longer responding. We share the same wifi network obviously, so it's not an issue of her being off or on the wifi. I haven't changed the password and when I do, I make sure we are both on the same wifi. So whose phone gets wiped out? both of ours? that's hardly a good suggestion when I use my device for work and personal. There really isn't a better way to do this than wipe out both devices? that seems rather drastic and poorly planned.