Find friends have grey dots

Hi there Cheeto01,

Welcome to Apple Support Communities. Thanks for reaching out to us with this inquiry you have about the photos in Find Friends. We're happy to provide some insight into this for you. The Find Friends photo is the same one used in your Contacts. So whatever photo you are using for a particular contact will show up as the photo in Find Friends. You can check, and add or edit photos in your Contacts using the steps here:

Edit contacts on iPhone

Feel free to reach back out if you have any questions.

Best regards!

Hello Cheeto01,

Thanks for the follow-up info. Does this issue persist after restarting the device? Follow the steps here to do so, and let us know the outcome:

Restart your iPhone

We look forward to hearing back from you.

Have a great day!

Hi again Cheeto01,

Thanks for that information. The next step will be to get you in touch with Apple Support for additional assistance. They can be reached here:

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Take care and be safe.