iPhone Xr, two eSIMS. iMessage isn't working
iOS 15.2.1.
I changed carriers and installed a new eSIM. The installation prompted me to assign functions to one or the other eSIM, cryptically labeled Primary and Secondary, as if I wanted two lines. I assumed I'd be able to re-assign things later, so I split them, some to one eSIM, some to the other. The new carrier is set up on the iPhone now but I can't iMessage. I tried switching the names of the eSIMS so Primary is now the new carrier but there's still iMessage problems. I tried turning off Secondary eSIM (old carrier) to make Primary the default for all traffic. Still problems with iMessage. The carrier's tech support says Apple will have to tell me how to assign iMessage to the right eSIM. Any help appreciated, I depend on iMessage.
iPhone XR