Hey Stormy40,
If we understand correctly, you do not receive notification sounds for Calendar events. It looks like you have already done some troubleshooting to solve this issue. Even though there is a chance that you've tried these steps already, we would recommend you follow every step and let us know if the issue persists.
Are these events created on the iPhone, or synced from another location?
Do you hear notification sounds for other apps?
- "Go to Settings
> Notifications > Calendar. - Turn on Allow Notifications.
- Tap a type of event (for example, Upcoming Events), then choose how and where you want the notifications for those events to appear—for example, on the Lock Screen, in Notification Center, as banners at the top of the screen, with an alert sound, and so on."
Keep track of events in Calendar on iPhone
Please don't hesitate to let us know if you need additional assistance.
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