Hi colombafromann arbor
Welcome to the Apple Community.
As you have changed your Apple ID password :
You may need to update your sign-in information with any Apple services that you're using.
The support page (link) below can help in this situation:
What to do after you've changed your Apple ID or password – Apple Support
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You may need to set up FaceTime before you can make or receive FaceTime calls.
Set up FaceTime on iPad – Apple Support
NB: For accurate info:
Choose correct iPad iOS at top of the page that opens from the link
And
Make and receive FaceTime calls on iPad – Apple Support
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Set up Messages on iPad – Apple Support (NB: Choose your correct iPad iOS at the top of the page that opens)
Send and receive text messages on iPad – Apple Support
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Troubleshooting :
If you can't send or receive messages on your iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch - Apple Support
If an app on your iPhone or iPad stops responding, closes unexpectedly, or won’t open - Apple Support
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If needed: There is a "Get Support" link to Apple, at top right on this discussion page.
Hope something here helps you access and use FaceTime and Messages
All the best :-)