Issue solved : buy a Huawei router witch wifi6, wait for some hours (my case more than one day) and the issue disappears, no more disconnections (more than a week without problems and wifi 6 is highly recommended)
Possible cause : 1) low and unstable wifi potencial from your internet (ISP). iPhone PRO MAXs have something disconnects from lower signal (when the iPhone is blocked essentially).
2) Apple try to load automatically a WIFI spot you recorded from another site (example your parents' home) and what try to connect the wifi password is your wifi password (it's the other). I know you consider me mad, but I noticed that wifi password in my IMAC, MacBook Pro , and iPhones, connects automatically without my effort (from the iCloud maybe) when wifi password is sharing between the devices.
So, you'd better erase all your wifi's password saved, connect new Huawei or Linksys router and voila.
NOTE : issue for me is since ios15.4 (march 2022) on iPhone 12 Pro Max and 13 Pro Max.