xr battery died during new update now stuck in restore and not recognizing charger

Hello Lilsnyds,

Based on your post, your iPhone XR died during an update. Now you can't restore, charge, or turn it on. We'll do our best to assist with this.

Have you had a chance to test multiple charging cables? If not, we'd try that next.

You mentioned now the computer doesn't recognize the iPhone is connected. We'd make sure you've covered all the steps here to troubleshoot that part: If your computer doesn't recognize your iPhone, iPad, or iPod - Apple Support

If it brings you back to the Restore screen on the iPhone, you'd want to take these steps: If you see the Restore screen on your iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch - Apple Support These steps are specific to that Restore screen, so it may help solve this for us.

Should it persist, we'd confirm the issue doesn't only happen on this computer. If you have access to a family member's or friend's computer, we'd try restoring using that device.

If you are still unable to get it powered on and functioning, then it might be best to bring it in for an inspection: iPhone Repair and Service

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Wishing you well, take care.