Thanks for the info, they should be "n" models if you bought them new. Here is how to do what you want:
_On your AirPort Extreme_:
o Open AirPort Utility and click Manual Setup
o Click the Wireless tab below the row of icons
o Your Wireless Mode should already be set to “Create a Wireless Network”
o Make sure there is a check mark next to “Allow this network to be extended”
o Note the setting for Wireless Security as you will need this for the next setup
o Update to save any changes
_On the AirPort Express_:
o Open AirPort Utility and click Manual Setup.
o Click the Wireless tab below the row of icons
o Wireless Mode = Extend a wireless network. If you don’t see this choice, hold down the option key when you click on the selection box
o Wireless Network Name = Same name as your AirPort Extreme Network
o Place a check mark next to Allow wireless clients
o Wireless Security = exact same setting as your AirPort Extreme
o Wireless Password = exact same setting as your AirPort Extreme
o Confirm Password
o Update to save settings
For further reference, Apple's instructions for the "extend" setup appear on pages 43-44 in the
Apple AirPort Networks Guide.
You also have the option during setup to temporarily connect an ethernet cable from your computer to the AirPort Express if you prefer to set it up using a wired connection. Once you have the settings updated, you can disconnect the ethernet cable and move the AirPort Express to the desired location...ideally about 1/2 to 2/3 of the distance from the AirPort Extreme to the area that needs more wireless coverage.
Please post back on your results.